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The Gift of Being Oblivious

“Mum! I’ve finished putting fur all over everything, you can fold it up now.” Pandora

Have you ever noticed that sometimes the smallest things can cause us to lose our happiness? You know, you’re having the best day – feeling like you could smash through any obstacle – then suddenly, without warning someone says something or does something, and all that positive energy that five seconds before was pumping you up leaks out, and you’re left as deflated as a popped balloon. Sound familiar?

If there’s one lesson I’ve learned from life – and believe me it’s taken me a long time to learn it – it’s that allowing trivial, insignificant words and actions to steal my happiness changes nothing, and is also a pretty dumb thing to do. While I fume and doubt, my mood and my day ruined, the purveyor of insensitivity and downright stupidity sails on through their day, clueless and oblivious. So the next time you’re in the supermarket and someone has 13 items in the 12 items or less queue, or someone asks you if you’re sick (no, I’m just not wearing make-up), or one of your kids spill food all over the floor, or perhaps your cat gets fur all over your clean laundry – Brush it off (the fur and the attitude) – get some perspective and move on. Life is too big and too wonderful to waste time worrying about the small stuff.

Anyway I’ve got to go now, I’ve got a load of washing I need to get on

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